Question? - I work different hour than my boyfriend. We see each other only for about 2 hours a day. My question is how can I get him to be more in the mood in such little time. Please help me?
Answer - Let him know how important the relationship is to you. We have a saying, “The hungriest one cooks.” This means who ever is interested in intimacy it is their responsibility to get the other person in the mood. You can also make him an offer he can’t refuse. Tell him if he will do just one thing that you want you will do two things for him.
I recently was in Baltimore on the “Big Phat Morning Show.”
It was a blast being in studio with Marc Clarke and the 92Q morning show crew.
Here are a few photos from the trip:
PorkChop, Sonji, Marc & me
Timothy Dean of Timothy Dean’s Bistro was serving up Waffles and Wings.
After my interview Mario stopped by to talk about his cast in “Teach with Your Heart”. An Inspiring story of one fiercely determined teacher and her remarkable students. The movie opens January 2007. You probably remember Mario most for the song “You Should Let Me Love You.” & “Just A Friend“.
Then Fantasia stopped by the studio to talk about her new CD “Fantasia” which was released in stores December 12, 2006. It’s hot. My favorite song is “Hood Boy” Check it out. Fantasia was the 2004 American Idol winner. She also went on to win 3 Grammy nominations with her first CD. Her book, “Life is Not A Fairytale” was made into a movie by Lifetime and it became the #1 movie for Lifetime in history. This is one lady I truly admire. Fantasia is an inspiration to so many. YOU GO GIRL!!!
The weather outside maybe cold, but I’m heating up the airwaves
in Baltimore MD.
It’s been over 2 years since my last appearance on the “Big Phat Morning Show.” I
am so excited to be joining Mark Clarke and all the crew on Wednesday morning
December 6, at 8:00 am.
If you listen to the morning show make sure you post your comments here. I look forward to hearing from you.
This photo was taken of Mark, Troy and I while in Jamaica. Visit The Big Phat Morning Show online.
One of my most romantic adventures wasn’t far from home. It was at a bed and breakfast right here in my city. I took my Mr. Wonderful on a very special date. One of the best things about the experience was that it was raining cats and dogs. Luckily I had been to the bed and breakfast earlier with our luggage and had prepared the room. Just thinking about it now brings back wonderful memories. I can see the candles burning and I can almost smell his favorite fragrance. I had everything covered, including something to please all five of his senses, and other things to keep us pleasurably entertained.
He had no idea what had been planned, just that he was mine for the entire weekend. I remember that Friday night we had dinner at this cozy little café right before I took him to our new secret spot. While we sat in the café watching it pour down outside, I asked him to close his eyes. I told him to imagine he could be anywhere in the world he wanted to be. I told him I was about to take him to that place. When he opened his eyes I gave him a passionate kiss and we left the café.
What was your favorite romantic adventure and why?
One of the most pleasurable feelings is the experience of a “taking touch.” What is a taking touch you ask? A taking touch is when the person who is doing the touching is getting more pleasure from touching you then you are from being touched. AHHH. It’s like Mozart playing the piano, or like Jimmy Hendrix playing the guitar. The maestro and his entrapment are one in the same. It isn’t work. It isn’t effort. It is his craft and he is good at it. The one who is being touched is mesmerized and they long to be touched like this. A taking touch can cause orgasmic contractions from even a simple touch on the shoulder. Want More Pleasure? Press Here!!!
If you are in St. Louis you have got to check out Dee Lee’s show. Dee is a long-time friend from Philly. He started out in comedy back in 1990 and now with his own reality show has invited me to be his audience’s resident “Relationship Educator” every Friday at 8:00 AM (CT). Check out Dee Lee on MySpace and in the STL Today.
EVERYTHING!!! Ever since I discovered that pleasure and intimacy have no boundaries, I have been passionate about sensuality. Whether I am hanging out with friends at “The Flat” drinking mohito, or on the road doing radio interviews, situations of the heart have always fascinated me.
Our relationships are the key components to our happiness. It is the glue that binds us. So posting my blog, well, that’s just another fun thing to do. We can spend countless hours trying to figure out relationship dialogs. Here is your space to post your concerns and read the comments of others. My blog is designed to speak directly to those of us who are in love with love and who want to push the limits. So whatever your relationship issues are, my hope is to inspire you to use any information you receive to improve your relationship. One place to begin that costs nothing more than a little time is with the E-Book “The Power of Intimacy: 9 Steps to Getting the Love Life You Desire.” For help with putting it all together in the bedroom try the videos “For His Eyes Only” and “For Her Eyes Only.” These videos feature couples who show you step-by-step how to do the famous Venus Butterfly Technique allowing you and your lover to experience elongated orgasms. Remember to keep in touch as our new dating service “A Fine Match” will be coming your way soon. It’s a place to connect with like minded individuals who share your interests.So grab your IsaShake and snuggle up to your monitor because it’s about to get steamy!
So someone asked me the other day:
How do I please my wife sexually the way she wants?
How do I satisfy her before I satisfy myself? I kinda go for along time but sometimes I don’t. Most of the time I finish before she can even get into it… What do I do to get the fire we had back in our sex life?????? Oral sex is not a problem. Foreplay is not a problem. What do I do?
I told him: It is always so good to hear from a man who is very interested in pleasing his partner. This in itself is a very attractive thing.
As you problem know women can be very different when it comes to pleasure, because what pleasured her today may no please her tomorrow or next week or next month. However, giving her an orgasm that keeps getting better and better will work every time.
I have 2 suggestions for you.
- Find out what she likes and give her more of it.
- Get my video “For His Eyes Only” and practice the techniques that are at the end of the videos. This video teaches you how the give her the most pleasure possible.