One of the great things about the beginning of a new year is the reminder that we can begin anew. This is the time to get reacquainted with things that may have been put on hold because other events took over. It’s also a great time to get back in touch with people we have drifted away from as life’s demands pulled us in many directions.

To each of you I want to extend a heartfelt Happy New Year, and welcome you to another year of great information, advice, and tools you can use to have better relationships and better dating experiences.

When it comes to getting back in touch this is also a time to take some steps to get back in touch with that all important person in your life – your mate, significant other, husband or wife. Often we put these most important relationships on hold, while we pursue our dreams of career and material possessions. In the process we stop learning and growing and improving our relationships and intimate moments with them.

So why not take some steps to reconnect? If you want better relationships then help yourself to my relationship advice. Whether you participate in the Pillow Talk Internet Seminars, or you watch For Her Eyes and For His Eyes better sex videos, you will gain insight that will help you to reconnect in a big way. My E-Book, The Power of Intimacy: 9 Steps to Getting the Love Life Your Desire, will be your guide to better relationships through a process of self discovery.

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So, welcome back, and why not make 2009 the year of “your relationship!”

Question - My lover doesn’t like to touch herself. How can I get her to experience her own body more? Also, she says that prior to our own relationship, she had only one climax in her entire life. Now, I give her many. Why is that?

My Answer - This can be a difficult problem. You either have a positive attitude about yourself sexually or a negative one. If her upbringing implies to her that she is somehow wrong or bad or dirty for wanting sex or for touching herself, you can help her overcome that by letting her know it is OK. Just as it is OK for her to touch her nose or feet, it is also acceptable for her to touch what belongs to her, and it is the only way she will be able to assist you in becoming an even better lover.As for your other question, chances are that whomever she was with in the past was sexually inexperienced, and thus did not know how to satisfy her in the ways you do now. Perhaps she did not feel safe enough to tell him at the time, but with you today, she feels loved and safe.