If your woman isn’t having sex regularly she may not be thinking about it much anymore. Women need regular stimulation in order for them to stay interested. Unlike men, whose desire increases over time when they don’t have sex, for women the desire decreases. Along with the decrease in desire there is a tendency for her to take longer to get aroused and become lubricated. The last thing you want to do is penetrate her when she isn’t wet because not only is that painful for her but you can also damage the sensitive lining of her vagina. 

Here is a plan you can follow that will bring sex, and arousal, to the front of her mind. 

• Spend a few days romancing her. Call her during the day just to say hi. Send her a couple of cards or emails letting her know you are thinking of her. Pull her close when it feels natural and just hold her and kiss her without sexual advances.
• When the time is right things will start to happen all by themselves. If that doesn’t work after a few days expand your efforts to include setting the stage for her to relax into the idea of sex. Think about what relaxes her. If it is a hot bath, suggest to her you will draw the water and wash her back. Light a candle at the tub. Maybe she likes massage. Offer to do that. Find the thing that will make her feel pampered and coax her into relaxing.
• Things should be ready to heat up by now so you also need to relax into it and focus on making sure she reaches maximum arousal. You should already be aware of the places she likes to be touched and kissed so begin there. Take your time. She will warm up in degrees, not all at once. Take your cue from her. When she is ready she will let you know by coaxing you into position, or asking you in her special way. 

You will be surprised at your results using this process but also remember: the longer she has been without it, the more effort will be required on your part. 

If you find you are only able to take her so far and not get to intercourse you should definitely try Alura. For years men have told me what amazing results they’ve had including Alura as part of their foreplay. When you apply Alura to the clitoral region it stimulates her to arousal, and it also increases her natural moisture flow so she desires you and is also ready for you, all at the same time. Alura comes in convenient Pillow Packs so the spontaneous moments stay spontaneous. 

And for you men and ladies who are already enjoying regular sex Alura can take even that to new heights of arousal and satisfaction. So whenever you want to turn up the heat, think Alura.

A recent newspaper article reported that we would be having sex with robots by the year 2050. These mechanical dreams are supposed to be so similar in intelligence and emotions to us that they will be indistinguishable from the typical person. Besides having sex with them the article also suggested we will be marrying them. 

I suppose if we can learn to love animals we could learn to love a machine that acts, feels and responds as humans do. But what of our unique human characteristics like emotions? When the robot has an orgasm will it be unique to that robot, or, similar to all robots? At what point will we loose interest in the robot because of its lack of emotional growth? Will we have to regularly update its software so we can have new experiences with it? Will the machines that are wired for sex be designed to top the human experience? And how many of us will buy into this for the sake of advertising and marketing, or even curiosity? 

It stimulates our minds to explore the unknown. But we can either use our desire to explore the unknown for a positive affect on our relationships, or we can use it to negatively affect our relationships. If we have sex in an elevator do we then have to have it on an airplane? If we do a threesome with two girls, will we have to do a threesome with two robots? We are looking for that next intense experience. We have shown we would rather take a pill to solve sexual issues than to teach our partners how our bodies work so we can give each other more pleasure sexually. Will robots take away the desire to become more deeply connected with our human loves? 

What about the possibility of discovering for ourselves that we don’t have ED (erectile dysfunction)? Or, how about discovering that our female partner really is saying no to us because it just isn’t as good for her as we think it is? We live in a fast-paced society and we have been programmed with the wrong information for too long. If you look at the magazine stands they are filled with articles claiming to have the answer, yet we still have relationship revolving doors. 

We should never underestimate technology. After all, look at where we’ve arrived just in the last 20 years. But it seems to me that there will always be something just a little different about humans that will always make them more enjoyable partners, both in and out of bed, than a programmed machine. Little nuances like unpredictability and emotional responses that come from experiences just might always keep us a bit different. 

We should begin putting more value on our human sexual relationships and we can do that through programs like Pillow Talk and by trying to live just a bit differently than we have been. We need to stop doing the stuff that keeps us away from the human experience. We need to turn off the TV, get off the computer, stop working late at the office, and spend some quality time together. 

Time will certainly answer the questions, but between now and then we should grab all the experience we can with the humans we love now.

Question – Is there anything out there to make a man’s penis larger or is all that stuff, sold in magazines full of stuff that sells dreams?

My Answer – We have yet to have anyone report success with the stuff in magazines; however, if your lover learns how to stimulate the secret spot at the root of your penis, this could temporally increase your penis size from 1 to 3 inches. We demonstrate this technique in our videos For Her Eyes Only.For Her Eyes Only. . How to Make Sex More Fun For Him.

Question - My lover doesn’t like to touch herself. How can I get her to experience her own body more? Also, she says that prior to our own relationship, she had only one climax in her entire life. Now, I give her many. Why is that?

My Answer - This can be a difficult problem. You either have a positive attitude about yourself sexually or a negative one. If her upbringing implies to her that she is somehow wrong or bad or dirty for wanting sex or for touching herself, you can help her overcome that by letting her know it is OK. Just as it is OK for her to touch her nose or feet, it is also acceptable for her to touch what belongs to her, and it is the only way she will be able to assist you in becoming an even better lover.As for your other question, chances are that whomever she was with in the past was sexually inexperienced, and thus did not know how to satisfy her in the ways you do now. Perhaps she did not feel safe enough to tell him at the time, but with you today, she feels loved and safe.

Question? – I work different hour than my boyfriend. We see each other only for about 2 hours a day. My question is how can I get him to be more in the mood in such little time. Please help me?

Answer - Let him know how important the relationship is to you. We have a saying, “The hungriest one cooks.” This means who ever is interested in intimacy it is their responsibility to get the other person in the mood. You can also make him an offer he can’t refuse. Tell him if he will do just one thing that you want you will do two things for him.

One of the most pleasurable feelings is the experience of a “taking touch.” What is a taking touch you ask? A taking touch is when the person who is doing the touching is getting more pleasure from touching you then you are from being touched. AHHH. It’s like Mozart playing the piano, or like Jimmy Hendrix playing the guitar. The maestro and his entrapment are one in the same. It isn’t work. It isn’t effort. It is his craft and he is good at it. The one who is being touched is mesmerized and they long to be touched like this. A taking touch can cause orgasmic contractions from even a simple touch on the shoulder. Want More Pleasure? Press Here!!!