Screw My Vibrator

Q. Why is it that no man can accept my vibrator?

There are many reasons why men may not accept your vibrator, but perhaps the biggest one can be summed up in one word – competition. They may feel they can’t compete with a vibrator, and men don’t like to play games they can’t win. Remember too that a vibrator can run a long time, as long as there is power, but most men have operating limits.

I once heard of a woman who needed to have a car buffer as her vibrator so she could get off. How did she get to that point? You have to wonder if she is so desensitized that she can’t even feel a simple human touch. And then, where will it end? How much bigger, or more powerful will the vibrating tools need to become so that she can feel satisfied?

People often get lost in sex tools like vibrators because they can take control of their own pleasure. For women, after a string of unskilled lovers they may get to the point where a man is not appreciated. For many people, solitary sex is all they feel they have time for, or that they are the only ones who can really please themselves. Some women never learned to ask for what they want in bed. Still others don’t want to take the time to train their man to please them. There is nothing wrong with any of that.

But when the sexual experience becomes empty and addictive, many women, and men, decide it’s time to involve another person. If you are involving a man and asking why he doesn’t accept your vibrator, then perhaps you really don’t want a man to be involved in your sex life. If you really do want a man involved with you in bed then maybe a better question would be, “How can I learn to find as much pleasure having sex with a man, as I find when I use a vibrator?”

To do that you will need to place your emphasis on the sensuality between two people on their way to orgasm, rather than emphasizing the solitary activity of simply reaching an orgasm. When you focus on sensuality, a simple touch can make you feel much more pleasure that a vibrator can. A really skilled lover can touch his woman on her shoulder and cause her to have orgasmic contractions. While some may love the feeling of a vibrator, it can’t kiss you, and spoon with you, and cuddle with you. It can’t provide any of the qualities relationships do.

Whenever you are ready to try to experience how much pleasure you really can have with a man you might consider checking out the videos “For His Eyes Only,” and “For Her Eyes Only.” They will teach you how to enjoy your partner so much that you will say, “Screw my vibrator!”