Once you have some basic massage moves under your finger tips there are new adventures you might want to explore.
To build some intimacy with your lover, how about giving him or her a sensual massage? A typical massage relaxes your partner, whereas a sensual massage can set the stage for some passionate lovemaking. There are essential oils available that are aphrodisiacs. Aphrodisiacs are substances that are capable of enhancing sexual pleasure and desire. Jasmine essential oil has a very erogenous effect and can fire up your sex life. Ylang Ylang and sandalwood also can steam things up.
Add in some music to turn up the passion. Some sexy saxophone or whatever you consider sexy music can set the stage for some real hot encounters.
Don’t be afraid to ask your mate to tell you what areas turn them on. Skip the shyness and clue them in to your hot spots too! There are also special oils and lotions that can warm up the genitals, oh-la-la! Now all you need to do is take your time, put on the music, get the massage oil out and let yourself go!
If you feel as though you’d like some training first then the video, The Joy of Erotic Massage, will have you performing like a pro in no time. Once you watch this take the next step and schedule a sensual massage with your lover. Later you may want to see how sensual massage can be blended with the secrets of extending sexual pleasure using the One Hour Orgasm.
What makes massage so special is the touch. And one of the most pleasurable feelings is the experience of a “taking touch.” What is a taking touch you ask? A taking touch is when the person who is doing the touching is getting more pleasure from touching you then you are from being touched. AHHH. It’s like Mozart playing the piano, or like Jimmy Hendrix playing the guitar. The maestro and his entrapment are one in the same. It isn’t work. It isn’t effort. It is his craft and he is good at it. The one who is being touched is mesmerized and they long to be touched like this. A taking touch can cause orgasmic contractions from even a simple touch on the shoulder. With a little practice the taking touch can be yours.
Once you try sensual massage I know that your confidence will kick in and you will intuitively be turning your mate, and yourself, on to new levels of passion.
