Question - My lover doesn’t like to touch herself. How can I get her to experience her own body more? Also, she says that prior to our own relationship, she had only one climax in her entire life. Now, I give her many. Why is that?

My Answer - This can be a difficult problem. You either have a positive attitude about yourself sexually or a negative one. If her upbringing implies to her that she is somehow wrong or bad or dirty for wanting sex or for touching herself, you can help her overcome that by letting her know it is OK. Just as it is OK for her to touch her nose or feet, it is also acceptable for her to touch what belongs to her, and it is the only way she will be able to assist you in becoming an even better lover.As for your other question, chances are that whomever she was with in the past was sexually inexperienced, and thus did not know how to satisfy her in the ways you do now. Perhaps she did not feel safe enough to tell him at the time, but with you today, she feels loved and safe.