 by
Jackie Fine
People talk about spring cleaning and spring flings. After the dark winter
months, spring represents sunny rejuvenation. Where I live, the season
only lasts a few weeks before the torrid months of summer arrive, but believe
me, we take advantage of it. Restaurants with patios have an increase in
patrons. Picnickers dot the parks like ants that swarm their blankets.
Women have their own personal springtime every month. The word sexologists
use is tumescence. Occurring just before ovulation and her menstrual cycle,
the woman experiences an increase in a sexual energy building up within.
Then, during the springtime and fall, she undergoes an overall lift. This
increased libido wants an outlet, needs an outlet, and it will discover
that outlet. Everyone, watch out. The woman with an attentive partner will
have no worries. That partner will sense the new energy and seek to gratify
it.
Trust me gentlemen, when your female partner's sex drive starts to increase,
you should feed it. Sex is never a one-way street. Satisfy her, and you
are sure to reap the benefits.
Tumescence is a sort of passion clay. Discover it, let it build, then shape
it into something extraordinary. Tease it, play with it, but satisfy it.
Like modeling clay, it has a purpose. It needs to be formed.
Biologically speaking, that energy exists to drive us to continue the species.
But I say turn biology into pleasure. The end of tumescence is sex; leave
mating out of the picture and you're left with pleasure.
However, the inattentive or ignorant partner will find that the
release of energy can be difficult. Like I said, that energy will find
an outlet, and it may not be sexual.
If it isn't released in a positive, constructive way, it becomes a whirlwind
of trouble. Suddenly a dirty house becomes the impetus for a fight. A misconstrued
phrase causes an outburst of emotion. Issues that haven't been resolved
find their way into conversations and arguments. Ah, spring - the time
when a frustrated woman's fancy turns to fighting.
Cyclical energy is an unbroken horse. Treat it right for a beautiful experience.
Let the energy flower and blossom into something romantic and sensual,
a moment worth discovering. However, ignore it, poke it with a stick, or
simply deny it, and you'll find yourself getting kicked in the teeth.
This spring, when everyone's enjoying the beautiful weather, focus on the
inner energies that scream for release. Spend time outside with your partner,
letting the female tumescence flow through positive channels. Then spend
time inside with that same energy, and let it release in an explosion of
sexual dynamite. Let nature's seasonal changes combine with interior biological
changes for intense romantic experiences.
Guys, pay attention; you might discover the springing tiger you've only
dreamed your mate could be. Do it right so you don't get mauled.
Unless, of course, her claws leave love scratches.
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