Are You Getting Satisfied?
Take Jackie's Relationship Quiz!

by Jackie Fine


Jackie wants to know, are you getting Satisfied? Has bedtime become more about sleeping than sex? Are your raunchiest moments together just a distant memory?

If so, it's time to put your love life on the line with Jackie's simple relationship quiz! Just answer the following questions as honestly and accurately as possible, then score the results using the Scoring information at the bottom.

1. 1. The passion in your relationship is...
   a. Improving
   b. Declining
   c. Staying the same
   d. Gone
   
2. You become sexually satisfied when you make love:
   a. Every time
   b. Most of the time
   c. Hardly ever
   d. Never
   
3. Your partner becomes sexually satisfied when you make love:
   a. Every time
   b. Most of the time
   c. Hardly ever
   d. Never
   
4. As a couple, you find yourselves both in the mood to make love:
   a. Always at the same time
   b. Mostly at the same time
   c. Rarely at the same time
   d. Never at the same time
   
5. Which most likely will occur whenever one of you expresses your sexual desire:
   a. You make love
   b. You make plans to make love
   c. You try to make an excuse
   d. You get into a fight
   
6. Which two items are most important in your relationship:
   a. Just enjoying your time together
   b. A good sex life
   c. Money
   d. Television
   
7. Which two items are most true about your relationship?
   a. Having fun together is still a priority
   b. You still enjoy planning romantic dates together
   c. He or she is not being satisfied (i.e., unable to achieve orgasm)
   d. He or she has problems becoming or staying turned on (i.e., unable to get interested)
   
8. Rate the spontaneity in your love life compared with how you remember it at the beginning of your relationship:
   a. The same or better
   b. Down a little
   c. Down a lot
   d. Nonexistent
   
9. How often has your partner used shortage of time as a reason for not making love:
   a. Never
   b. Sometimes
   c. Often
   d. Always
   
10. How often does your partner use being tired as a reason to not make love:
    a. Never
    b. Sometimes
    c. Often
    d. Always
    
11. # When your partner returns after a couple of days away from home, do you:
    a. Give them a hug and a sloppy kiss and say you've missed them
    b. Give them a quick snuggle
    c. Say hello but carry on with what you were doing
    d. Ignore them - after all, you've seen them before
    
12. It's the eve of your partner's birthday and you still haven't bought him or her a present. Do you:
    a. Spend your lunch hour hunting for the ideal gift
    b. Nip to the shops on the way home and grab something you hope they'll like
    c. Not bother with a present-a nice birthday card will be fine
    d. Not bother with anything-after all, birthdays are a bore

So, how do you think your relationship has fared? To find out the truth, grim or otherwise, check out my scoring guide below.

SCORING
Each A = 3 points
Each B = 2 points
Each C = 1 point
Each D = 0 points

Mostly A's OR more than 30 points:
This shows your relationship is rock solid when it comes to sex and romance.

If you have answered nearly every question with an A, then your are probably as happy together as when you first met. The spontaneity is still as sizzling as ever. In fact, you might be hard-pressed to find any faults with your partner.

Mostly B's OR 20 to 29 points:
While you might not be as ecstatic as the people who answered A's you are pretty content.

You still make love when one of you is in the mood - at least most of the time.

To rekindle the passion you had at the start of your relationship, try to do more romantic things with and for your mate.

Mostly C's OR 10 to 19 points:
This relationship is running into serious trouble, but it's not too late to put things right.
While you often say you are too tired for love, you still find the energy sometimes. Have you stopped talking to each other? Communicating again may provide the opening to be more romantic with each other.

Mostly D's OR less than 9 points:
There isn't a lot of happiness in your relationship-for either one of you. You probably argue over just about everything, especially sex.

If you want to stay together, you will have to open the lines of communication, since they have probably been closed for some time. Talk honestly and tell each other what you really want and need. Once you start talking again, you may see your partner as you did when love was new. Then add romance back into your relationship and you'll experience increased satisfaction with your mate.

NOTE: This quiz was devised by Jackie Fine in order to help individuals or couples determine whether problems may exist within a relationship. Jackie has counseled couples for more than eight years after studying the art of lovemaking at The American Institute. For more information please call (713) 622-8223.

Please note however, that this test is not intended to be a substitute for psychological or psychiatric counseling.

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