 by Jackie Fine
People talk about spring cleaning and spring flings. After the
dark winter months, spring represents sunny rejuvenation. Where
I live, the season only lasts a few weeks before the torrid months
of summer
arrive, but believe me, we take advantage of it. Restaurants with
patios have an increase in patrons. Picnickers dot the parks like
ants that swarm their blankets.
Women have their own personal springtime every month. The word
sexologists use is tumescence. Occurring just before ovulation
and her menstrual cycle, the woman experiences an increase in a
sexual energy building up within. Then, during the springtime and
fall, she undergoes an overall lift. This increased libido wants
an outlet, needs an outlet, and it will discover that outlet. Everyone,
watch out. The woman with an attentive partner will have no worries.
That partner will sense the new energy and seek to gratify it.
Trust me gentlemen, when your female partner's sex drive starts
to increase, you should feed it. Sex is never a one-way street.
Satisfy her, and you are sure to reap the benefits.
Tumescence is a sort of passion clay. Discover it, let it build,
then shape it into something extraordinary. Tease it, play with
it, but satisfy it. Like modeling clay, it has a purpose. It needs
to be formed.
Biologically speaking, that energy exists to drive us to continue
the species. But I say turn biology into pleasure. The end of tumescence
is sex; leave mating out of the picture and you're left with pleasure.
However, the inattentive or ignorant partner will find that the
release of energy can be difficult. Like I said, that energy will
find an outlet, and it may not be sexual.
If it isn't released in a positive, constructive way, it becomes
a whirlwind of trouble. Suddenly a dirty house becomes the impetus
for a fight. A misconstrued phrase causes an outburst of emotion.
Issues that haven't been resolved find their way into conversations
and arguments. Ah, spring - the time when a frustrated woman's
fancy turns to fighting.
Cyclical energy is an unbroken horse. Treat it right for a beautiful
experience. Let the energy flower and blossom into something romantic
and sensual, a moment worth discovering. However, ignore it, poke
it with a stick, or simply deny it, and you'll find yourself getting
kicked in the teeth.
This spring, when everyone's enjoying the beautiful weather, focus
on the inner energies that scream for release. Spend time outside
with your partner, letting the female tumescence flow through positive
channels. Then spend time inside with that same energy, and let
it release in an explosion of sexual dynamite. Let nature's seasonal
changes combine with interior biological changes for intense romantic
experiences.
Guys, pay attention; you might discover the springing tiger you've
only dreamed your mate could be. Do it right so you don't get mauled.
Unless, of course, her claws leave love scratches.
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