 by Jackie Fine
People ask me all the time to explain the one technique to blow
their partner's mind. Sometimes for proper sensual/mental havoc,
you have to start from the bottom. That's right, the feet -- probably
the single most sensual area on a woman's (or man's) body that's
most often overlooked.
You might have trouble believing a foot massage could be more
than briefly touching an area most people consider completely unattractive.
I hate my feet. But ladies, believe me, my partner's foot expertise
has me so enthralled that I'll wiggle my toes in his lap until
he's forced to touch them. The foot massage rarely proves to be
the end of the encounter.
Don't be limited by the word "foot." Doing it right
can mean starting high, around the woman's thighs or knees and
working down. Skin on skin can be enough, but a nice warm lotion
or massage oil will be heaven. You can lightly warm one in a microwave
(test before applying, please) or use a massage oil that heats
itself when used. Pick a scented oil if you like, one that will
be pleasing to both of you.
To give a good massage, you need to enjoy it yourself. Take your
time, focus on the parts of her lower legs and feet that interest
you. Press hard enough not to tickle, but soft enough not to hurt.
Use your fingers, thumbs, and knuckles in a kneading motion. Don't
forget the heel.
A massage is a great chance to talk. Touch your partner and hear
about their day. You can please physically and bond emotionally
at the same time. It also sets up prime physical communication.
Find out what they enjoy and how to better please them with a
massage, and you'll find yourself more adept at pleasing them
in other more intimate ways.
Feet are packed with nearly 15,000 nerve endings and some women
can reach orgasm just by having them rubbed... so don't overlook
them! Let the tension of the day melt out of the feet and let
the passion ease its way into your bedroom. A few stress erasing
minutes on the feet can open up worlds of pleasure.
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