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Olympian Romance

I’m not a big sports fan. I don’t spend every Sunday on the couch with two televisions blaring at me how my fantasy picks are going.

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More Than Just Fitting

The tennis shoe is not a dress shoe. It could tell you it’s a dress shoe, but you wouldn’t believe it, no matter how much you wanted to...

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If You Can’t Say Something Nice

“You look nice.” It’s a rather simple and meaningless compliment, but it came from an unexpected source.

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Lust to Love: Dating in 5 Steps

A friend of mine has a new boyfriend every week. She meets some “oh-my-God-wonderful guy” while she’s out – a bar, museum, even her ob-gyn’s office (trust me, that story does not reflect well on her).

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The Kissing Signature

He put his tongue in my mouth and left it there. Gave it a little wiggle. With that, my junior high boyfriend introduced me to French kissing.

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A Just Because Romance

Days upon days pass by. The hours pile up while we spin around. I get bored. You get bored. Our lovers get bored. Then Hallmark and American Greetings create a day to celebrate the love we’ve felt all year long. Celebrate? Yawn.

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Make-Up Sex

Here’s one thing your mother never told you: disagreements in relationships can be a good thing. They can bring to the surface information or knowledge about your relationship that you never knew are may have over looked. Disagreements can also highlight something special about the two of you that may not have been previously understood.

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Deliberately Do Me

Last night I ate McDonald's. I had just finished a happy hour with friends and was on my way to meet a different set, and I hadn't eaten. The food was cheap and convenient. My hunger had been met — not satisfied, merely met.

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Put Some Spring In Your Bed

People talk about spring cleaning and spring flings. After the dark winter months, spring represents sunny rejuvenation. Where I live, the season only lasts a few weeks before the torrid months of summer arrive, but believe me, we take advantage of it.

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The Power is in the Seduction

Some of you don’t like Valentine’s Day. On one hand, I understand. Red and pink aren’t exactly my favorite colors, and, though some people claim it’s an aphrodisiac, chocolate seems a rather weak way to express affection.

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Avoid the Crowd

People usually enter threesomes looking for intensity and/or new experiences... but bringing a third person into a committed sexual relationship means that one person ends up being left out.

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Don't Just Lie There, Do Something

Lovemaking takes deliberation. We have to enter the bedroom wanting to please our partners

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Pleasure Not Pressure

People respond to encouragement, not complaints... and people always respond to being told what they're doing well instead of what they're doing wrong.

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Fantasize Then Verbalize

Having fantasies is natural. They are a chance for our imagination to give us what life does not. It's something we really want, and maybe that's the reason they are so powerful - the wanting builds up our interest.

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Jackie's Relationship Quiz

Jackie wants to know, are you getting satisfied? Has bedtime become more about sleeping than sex? Are your raunchiest moments together just a distant memory? If so, then it's time to put your love life on the line with Jackie's simple relationship quiz!

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Who's Out To Play???

When you have sex with people who are having sex with other people, you increase your chances of catching a sexually transmitted disease exponentially. But when you find someone you can commit to, and the two of you speak honestly about things, you can reduce that risk to zero.

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Romantic Equity

I'm not one to knock going out and having a good time. I enjoy visiting the rather swank hot spots on the weekend nights for a drink. But there's a difference between a little carousing and prowling for someone.

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Put Some Spring Into Your Bed

Women have their own personal springtime every month. The word sexologists use is tumescence. Tumescence is a sort of passion clay. Discover it, let it build, then shape it into something extraordinary. Tease it, play with it, but satisfy it.

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8 Things Everyone Should Know

A friend once asked me to distill all the advice on romance I give into a quick tip. I said simply, love the other person. It's a verb, so act it out. But rather than have all you rolling your eyes at me, I've decided to open up the advice to 8 Basic Tips Everyone Should Know…

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Milk, Eggs, Love, and Bread: Flirting Revisited

Fresh out of a relationship, Nikki took a few sips of her new found freedom, enjoyed the taste, and drank deeply. Were there such a thing as a relationship cop, they would never have let Nikki behind the wheel.

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The Romance Road Map

At times it might seem only of slight significance, but you join the person you make love to. People forget that. People want to believe sex is a purely physical act for pleasure.

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Want More Pleasure? Press Here!!!

People ask me all the time to explain the one technique to blow their partner's mind. Sometimes for proper sensual/mental havoc, you have to start from the bottom - the feet.

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Shhh... Listen To This

When love matters, words matter. To manifest our love, we have to communicate it. But if words matter, then how much more does listening?

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Relationship Politicians

The less we reveal, the less our partner knows. The less they know, the more guesses they have to make. If your reticence has already made them suspicious, further silence can prove deadly to a relationship.

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Convenience Store Love:
Less Sex, More Problems

Sex won't be the glue that holds you together, but sex can let the sun shine on your intimacy.

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Live The I-Love-You

What matters now, more than ever, is having someone we can count on. All we have is ourselves and the person next to us. I'm glad we realize it.

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Cut To The Chase

Go for what you want, but appreciate it once you have it... If you don't take care of your lover, someone else might come along who will.

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